How to choose a strap-on dildo
A Whirlwind Guide To Choosing Strap-On Dildos
Selecting strap-on dildos might seem like a simple enough thing to do, at least until you walk into the sex shop. Then you’re confronted by a plethora of strap-ons with different harness options, different features on the dildos, all made from a zillion different materials. Which strap-on’s right for you?
There’s no right or wrong answer; it depends on what you’re looking for from your strap-on experience. The comfort of the participants is likely to be a major factor in selecting strap-on dildos, though. Let’s talk harnesses. Typically, harnesses are configured as either T-straps or jock straps. The T-strap is the one that looks like a thong – it has two straps that surround the hips and one that threads between the legs. The jock type of strap-on dildo has a waist strap and straps that encircle each thigh. Many users find the jock more comfortable for strap-on use, but depending on the material the straps are made of, the T-strap can be just fine, too. Feel the straps of the dildos before purchase, if at all possible.
The means of attachment of the dildos to the harnesses are important, too. You want a tight fit, not a situation where the dildo’s going to be slipping out of position just when things are getting fun. Many strap-ons come with a harness that’s got a hole in the base, or with the addition of a ring to affix the dildos to the harness with. The major advantage is the variety of dildos that can be used with these strap-ons. Dildos of many different shapes, even ones that have molded testicles can typically be attached to these strap-on dildo harnesses, allowing a vista of possibilities for strap-on dildo sex play. The disadvantage is the tightness of fit, especially with cheapo harnesses. Dildos can often slip out of position or rotate, so if you’re trying G-spot or P-spot stimulation with these strap-on dildos, you might find that the dildos spin so far out of position that their curve becomes useless.
Vacuum sealed attachments provide superior fit – the chance of slippage when using strap-ons with vacuum locked dildos is remote. The disadvantage here is that few manufacturers make dildos with the compatible plug for the strap-on’s base, so that you won’t have nearly the variety of different dildos to choose from with these harnesses. These strap-on dildos are tend to be pretty darned pricey.
Once you’ve experienced strap-on dildo play and want to add extra spice to it, there are some spiffy enhancements on the market. Some strap-on dildos have a nozzle that can shoot warm water to simulate ejaculation or even to enable full-fledged enema play. Some strap-ons support dildos that inflate, increasing the diameter of the dildos during penetration. If you’ve got the money to burn, you can also get strap-ons that have dildos inset with tiny electrodes for erotic electrostimulation. The possibilities are limited only by your imagination.
Strap-on dildos facilitate a wide variety of erotic practices. Lesbian couples may enjoy having the facility for penetration through use of strap-ons. Masturbation via strap-ons that attach to furniture of fixed surfaces can be quite enjoyable. For men with erectile dysfunction or transgendered folks who’d find strap-ons useful, strap-on dildos offer a means for allowing these people the ability to engage in penetration. Strap-ons are useful toy practicing orgasm denial.
The right tool for the right job might sound trite, but it’s fitting when it comes to choosing strap-on dildos. Have fun, experiment, and you’ll settle in on the strap-ons that’re right for you.
